The reason I chose to read this article is because “defiant” is one word that automatically makes me think of my student. He will often argue with adults, or blatantly do things that he knows he shouldn’t. When I started reading the actual article, specifically the definition of defiant behavior, it became even more clear that this would be the appropriate article.
I realize that positive behavior supports are the most helpful way to encourage a child to behave, and because of this I try to emphasize when this student is doing what he should be doing. Especially in whole group discussions, if he is quietly raising his hand I am sure to thank him for waiting so quietly and then call on him. Our class gets dollars for good behavior, and this is something I try to use as often as possible with the student to encourage him to continue good behaviors that are earning him the money. Unfortunately, often the student is not doing what he should be and I don’t have the opportunity to let him earn dollars. Instead, inappropriate behaviors are usually addressed and this is when the student tends to become defiant.
When the article talks about FBAs and making hypotheses about why a student may be showing defiance, I began thinking…. and I think that my student is yearning for attention. Unfortunately, I think that at home the attention he gets isn’t the most positive and being defiant is the way he gets reactions out of people. So then it begins to carry over into school, and he shows defiance, and he gets reactions. Like I said before, I try to give him appropriate positive attention when he is showing me that he knows how to follow expectations, but this doesn’t keep him from showing defiance in other situations.
One thing that I think I can try more is to try to listen to his side when he becomes defiant instead of entering into a power struggle, like the article warns against. Maybe this would give us a way to talk about the situation and for him to realize, in a less threatening way, why I am expecting him to do the task at hand (OR maybe for me to understand why he has a reason to be defiant!).
The behavior contract shown in the article is almost exactly like one that I have made with this particular student. It worked!! For a little while… but then lost some of its influence. I am not quite sure how to keep it as a priority to the student. I am glad that this article showed me some new things to attempt with the student!